Hey everyone! I am alive! I am sorry it has been two weeks, and I haven't posted anything. I have been having trouble getting to an internet cafe. I really have a hard time find my way around Kumasi. There are no street signs, so you have to purely memorize landmarks, etc in order to find your way around. Also I do not think I got a thorough enough orientation of the area, so most of time I am completely lost and have no idea were I am going. The only places I know how to get to are work and home, and even sometimes I end up screwing that up. The other day I thought I was on the right trotro (bus) home, and I ended up in a town 2 hours away! And I was all by myself, and it was at night! Lets just say I had on emotional breakdown on the bus... everyone kept staring at me and then yelling at each other Twi (I'm pretty sure they were talking about me). Luckily, I called my Project's abroad "mentor," and he worked everything out for me so I got home safely. It was an exhausting experience.
Overall though, I am having a good time. It is defiantly a culture shock. I am still getting use to the people, weather, lifestyle, etc. I must say I have new found appreciation for the US, and I do really miss it.
My host family is really nice though. I love my host mom. She is so sweet and caring. She really is like my mom here, and I love it. You better watch out merm! You might end up losing your "best mermer in the world" status. :) My host dad is really nice too, but he is not around that much. They also have 3 little boys, and boy are they a handful. The littlest one, who is 5, is a crazy mess. He doesn't really understand boundaries, but I guess shouldn't be really be surprised by that because most Ghanians don't. The oldest son, who is 9, is obsessed with all my electronics. He is constantly asking to use my laptop, which normally wouldn't be an issue but Ghanians don't wash there hands (not even after they use the bathroom), so when he uses my laptop, it is literally covered in dirt... I also forgot to mention I do not have running water at my house, so I have to use buckets of water to bath and flush a toilet. I must say this is worst part, especially since (I'm sorry if this is too much info) I now have diarrhea like everyday. A huge bucket full of water never seems to really flush it all the way.
The food here is pretty good though. Everything for the most part is really spicy. It is all mostly carbs, starches, and proteins. I really miss green vegetables. When I come home, I just want a big bowl of broccoli. Also, every time I eat I have to try to forget how the are cooking it because I am afraid there is no such thing of sanitary cooking conditions. For instance, they wash there dishes by putting them in a bucket full of soapy water, and that is it... Also the whole not washing your hands things before your cook makes me cringe too.
Volunteering at the orphanage is going well. It is very challenging because of the language barrier and the kids are so violent. However, now that I have been there for a while, they are starting to respect me more. I'm doing more teaching than care work though. I work with a 3-4 year old class (most are orphans but there are a few outsiders). I have to start coming up with lesson plans etc, which is really difficult because I really don't have a background in early-childhood teaching, and the language barrier really does help either. In addition, I have started to become attached to a few of the kids, which I know can not be good. I already want to take home some of them. Am I do young to adopt a child?
So far my favorite part about being here is the traveling part. We went to Kokrobite Beach last weekend, which was gorgeous, and tomorrow I plan on doing a day trip to Boabeng-Fiema Monkey Sancturary. Apparently, at this place, the monkeys will eat food right out of your hand! I'm really pumped for it!
While I better be going, I am meeting some volunteers at a bar to watch the soccer game. Most of the volunteers are from Europe, so they are all really into soccer. Ghanians are crazy about soccer, too. Hopefully, I will be able to get to the internet cafe again on Sunday or later in the week. I will try to bring my laptop next time, so I can post pictures! Miss everyone! And love you all!!!